Hello from California,
About 10 years ago I designed site improvements for a school on a 4 acre property with an existing church. This is considered fairly large property-"near downtown"-- for an area with some of the highest land values in the US.
Since construction, I've monitored performance on my own, and I have my own ideas of what I would do differently / better. But we were not required to contain an event anywhere near a 25-year reoccurrence interval--I believe our requirement was say a 1-inch storm in 24 hours.
We currently have another site ---much smaller-which requires 5-year containment; this is an expensive undertaking--fortunately church members have deep pockets and determination to see their dream built.
And we just finished construction of a what I consider a sophisticated system for an industrial customer including underground storage tanks, pumps, controls and wiring like you'd see in a sewage treatment plant.
But it seems to me you folks face a very large challenge if you must absolutely contain a 25-year event, unless you a) are blessed with building on very permeable soil, b) have a huge site for retention basis, or c) have a huge budget.
Are you sure that containment of a "25-year storm" is the case? Even a 10-year event totally contained will be a substantial undertaking.
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Scott Onishuk M.ASCE
Santa Barbara CA
(805)563-0788
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