Morning routine? ha ha ha!
Can you tell I'm not a morning person? My morning typically begins with me hitting the snooze button for 30 minutes. At some point, one of my 4 children typically crawls into bed with me. Or one of the dogs. I typically end up telling my kindergartner that I'm going to get dressed first. She hasn't figured out that I never actually race her - it's just my method for motivating her to get dressed willingly.
My routine varies from day to day because I typically work from home twice a week. On the mornings when I work from home, I spend less time fussing over my appearance - i.e. I throw on yoga pants. I typically help my husband get the kids out the door, and then I am able to enjoy the quiet while I sit down to get started on my work. Sometimes I will take a few minutes to cook myself some breakfast. On office days, I'm getting dressed and gathering what I need while my wonderful husband cooks me a breakfast sandwich to eat in the car. I drop my daughter at school, and my commute takes about an hour.
Luis - I noticed you mentioned getting a baby ready in the morning. Are you a new father? I am just wondering if that could be contributing to your feelings of being overwhelmed. For one, I know spending even just a few minutes reading my Bible every day can make a big difference in helping me cope with stress, so I hope you are able to keep that up. Second, if you are a new father, it can take time to adjust to new routines. Give yourself some grace as you figure out what works best for you and baby. I try to let go of trying to keep on my set routine so that I can enjoy the special little moments with my children. Those moments are almost never scheduled - and, let's be honest, are typically interrupting my schedule. But I find that letting myself enjoy my children is better than sticking with any routine or schedule.
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Kelly Farabee P.E., M.ASCE
Guyton GA
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Original Message:
Sent: 10-09-2019 09:38
From: Luis Duque
Subject: Morning Routines
I have been feeling overwhelmed at work lately and it has greatly affected my morning routine, making me more tired and stressed during the day.
I think morning routines are important to maintain order in our lives as engineers. Here is what morning routine looks like (ideally!)
- 4:45 am - Wake up and get a cup of coffee
- 5-5:30 am - Spend some time reading (right now I use this time to read the bible)
- 5:30-5:45 am - Look over my daily tasks and spend some time prioritizing what I need to do.
- 5:45 -6:15 am - Do some work for organizations I am involved such as ASCE, SEI, or EWB (Alternatively I use this time to just breathe and have some quiet time)
- 6:15 - 7:00 am - Get ready, get the baby ready, and gather everything to go to work.
While this is not always how it looks like, I make an effort of spending my mornings this way to help me be in control of my day and start the day the way I choose to rather than rolling off the bed and getting to work.
How does your morning routine look like?
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Luis Duque EIT, A.M.ASCE
Structural Engineer
Broomfield CO
<maskemail>luis@...</maskemail>
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