Danielle,
I am happy to hear these topics brought into the attention of this community. Despite the great quality of education we receive, financial education seems to be a topic hard to come by at many schools.
There are many great tools available such as Mint or Personal Capital. These tools extract data from your bank accounts (after you have given them permission, of course) and present you with the data and several graphs. They do a very good job of categorizing your expenses and providing a summary. However, me and my wife use an Excel spreadsheet that we fill manually. We store it at a shared location (e.g., google drive, dropbox). This method, despite being more time consuming, forces us to check every single expense. Of course, being engineers, everything has formulas. The first sheet contains our budget with about 15 expense categories. Then, there is a separate sheet for each month's expenses. We have created conditional formats that show in red when we have exceeded our budget for the month, and a pie chart to understand where most of our money is being spent. The last sheet is a summary of the yearly expenses.
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Carlos Zuluaga Ph.D., EI, A.M.ASCE
Ph.D. Student, Civil Engineering
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